Are you filled with the spirit?  If not, then why?  See below for a link to know how you can be filled with the spirit, if you are a believer.  If you are not a believer, you need the other link, for becoming a believer.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.

https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/how-to-be-filled-with-the-spirit

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